There is something powerful about looking out for one another -especially in times like these. Have you heard the saying "I'm my sister's keeper"? It's true. In recent months, many women have lost their jobs. For some, their work was more than a paycheck -it was a part of their identity. When something so central to our lives is taken away, especially without warning, it can be devastating. Many people live paycheck to paycheck, and when that income disappears they're thrust into survival mode.
Depression, anxiety and a deep sense of hopelessness can quickly follow. So what can you do to make sure your sister whether she's a friend, family member or colleague is truly okay? Start by paying attention. Watch her body language. Ask her how she's really doing. Most of the time you're going to hear, "I'm good" but don't stop there. Let her know you genuinely care . Let her know you're present and willing to listen. Pride often keeps people from admitting they are struggling, especially when it comes to finance or self worth. If you know she has been out of work for a while, or she's unsure about the next steps, be that friend who says, "let's talk. I'm here for you, and really want to help you get through this." Maybe you've been there yourself. Remember, the pandemic wasn't that long ago. Many of us lost jobs, but we also found new paths.
The bottom line is this: we need to check in on the people we care about. We need to be intentional about making sure our sisters are okay- especially now.
