This Is Your Season

Has there been a time in your life, when you can't stop thinking about something you've always wanted to do. If there is a constant pressing, something is being stirred up within you that you have to offer the world. Don't be afraid to walk by faith not by sight, when you have these pressing thoughts, it could very well be your season.  Write down your thoughts,  the difference between a doer and a dreamer is that the doer will write down the vision so they can have clarity. A dreamer keeps it inside, and thinks about it because they don't know where to start. It is written in Habakkuk 2:2 in the bible to write the vision, and make it plain, that he may run who reads it. That means you can move forward with clarity, and your vision can unfold. This is your season to fulfill your passion, start that business, write the book you want the world to read. All you have to do is start, and write it down.

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When you are facing hardships in life, as hard as it is, you must have faith. It's not easy to have faith in troubling situations, but it most certainly is better than having fear. You see, when we are going through the storms in life, we have a choice to make. We can focus on what we see, or we can focus on God, who is unseen. I have learned recently to focus on God, not on what I see. It has been scary, but I made the decision not to be afraid of what I am going through. I have to talk to myself when thing appear that it's not going to work out, to remind myself that God is with me, and He has promised me he would never leave me alone. Because I have made a decision to trust and have faith in what I don't see, I have found a peace that passes all my understanding. I have taken care of whatever I was facing, what was  stealing my joy, and every time I'm in awe. One other word of advice in achieving faith over fear, do not look at tomorrow, focus on today. Tomorrow is a distraction that might not ever come. Don't look back at yesterday, because that opportunity is gone and there isn't anything you can do about it.  Place your focus on today, look at the most pressing challenges before you, and tackle that because you can't tackle the whole elephant in one bite. 

This Is Your Season

Has there been a time in your life, when you can't stop thinking about something you've always wanted to do. If there is a constant pressing, something is being stirred up within you that you have to offer the world. Don't be afraid to walk by faith not by sight, when you have these pressing thoughts, it could very well be your season.  Write down your thoughts,  the difference between a doer and a dreamer is that the doer will write down the vision so they can have clarity. A dreamer keeps it inside, and thinks about it because they don't know where to start. It is written in Habakkuk 2:2 in the bible to write the vision, and make it plain, that he may run who reads it. That means you can move forward with clarity, and your vision can unfold. This is your season to fulfill your passion, start that business, write the book you want the world to read. All you have to do is start, and write it down.

Read more »

I need a friend, a real friend

We are all in this same game of life, trying to win. It's hard, because while trying to win we lose connection with people. We have so many platforms to keep us disconnected from one another, and that is causing all kinds of issues. We all need someone to call on, that person that you just want to share something great that happened in a day with, or someone you can laugh with about the little things in life.  Let's be honest, with everything going on in our world, we need a little lightheartedness. We are a busy people these days with no time to slow down. But we have to find the time to connect, to slow down, and as they say, "smell the roses!" What can you do to find that friend, that person? First, you can't be afraid of rejection, as I said, "we are all looking for that friend." We have many opportunities to connect, but out of fear of rejection, we won't make it happen. Today, I thought about how many people I've met in the past month, and it was a lot. I'm kind of a people person, so it's not that hard for me to strike up a conversation. 

Read more »

Battlefield of the Mind

The scene of the crime is your mind, thoughts are always showing up trying to steal your joy! Our minds can cause us to overthink everything. It's that inner reasoning and deliberation with oneself, and the world in which you live. Change your thinking, and you can change the outcome of your fight. If you don't have a handle on your thoughts, you become enslaved to the mind. We wage war from within, and if we don't change our thinking it defeats us. So, how can we change our thinking? First, get out of yourself, the flesh takes you down a dark downward spiral that makes it hard to get out of. Think about what is positive in your life, where do you go to find strength, peace and harmony? I'm not here to promote any type of religion, but I am a spiritual being who believes there is someone greater than me, or my thoughts, and I tap into that resource by reading the bible, being able to pray, and talk to God, believing He is someone who listens to me. I usually feel better after getting quiet, I find more clarity in what I am going through, and best part about it is that I didn't have to find someone to talk to about my thoughts. So be victorious in the battle, and win the war!

Read more »

Understanding Shifts In your Life

Have you ever had one of those days, when everything is going in your favor? You feel the blessings chasing after you all day long, and all of a sudden, the joy and positive attitude starts to fade for some reason. That can happen at the drop of a hat. When this happens I like to find a quiet place to sit down and think about any reason that could have shifted the atmosphere. As a matter of fact, this happened to me this week. I have had a great week filled with joy, love from family and friends, but without me realizing it, I remembered this is the week of my anniversary , and my late husband's birthday. It's been ten years since his passing. and usually I will post a birthday wish on my Facebook page, but this year I decided not to post the happy heavenly birthday on my page. For me it was like a day of silence, a day of reflection, and remembrance, I didn't want to share my day with the world. I didn't spend the whole day reflecting, but it was enough time to overcome the feelings I was experiencing. This milestone anniversary created the shift without me being aware of my feelings throughout the day, or  week.  Last night, I started to get sad again, and couldn't understand why, then this morning more sadness was overtaking me. I sat quietly, asking God what is the matter with me? In that quiet time, God impressed gently upon my heart that my sadness was coming from the longing of what I once had. There is a significant loss that has been experienced, and the memories that are held will never dissipate, they resurrect during times like this, birthdays, anniversaries, family gatherings and the list can go on and on.

Read more »

Are You Being Your Authentic Self?

Do you ever find yourself looking at someone, and start to judge yourself, or compare yourself? It's okay sometimes, that means you are trying to be your best, and it is keeping you aware of how you are presenting yourself to the world, but why do we do that? We have been given our own unique looks, gifts, and intelligence to be used for whatever purpose we were placed on the earth to do. When you can be authentic, you give the world so much more beauty, and it allows you to be part of a beautiful tapestry. You should never want to be someone else because you don't know what they are going through behind what you can see. All that glitters isn't gold, and all that you see is not real. Makeup and clothes can make just about anyone look good, so please just show up as your authentic self to the world, because contrary to what you might believe, you are authentically, and uniquely beautiful, So, go show the world who you are, not who you're trying to mimic!!

Read more »

Don't wait until tomorrow to do what you can do today

You should never put off until tomorrow, what you can do today. You might get a phone call, and be tempted to ignore it, but what if the person on the other end has been struggling, or battling an addiction. What if they just need someone- You- to listen? Try to pause and consider what they might be going through. Step into their shoes, even for a moment. That call might be their cry for help, their last ounce of courage to reach out.  Your voice familiar- and steady- might be exactly what they need to hold on a little longer. People often carry heavy things in silence. Fear of rejection, judgement or shame keeps them from speaking up until they feel they are at the end of their struggle. They might not tell you they're drowning, but that doesn't mean they aren't. We all face challenges;  toxic relationship, workplace struggles, financial strain. Some  people hide it better than others. But if you can offer a little compassion, if you can walk someone through their darkness, you might just find healing for yourself too.

Read more »

Protect Your Dream

Have you ever had a dream so vivid, so powerful,  that it felt like a part of you? Yet for one reason, or another you set it aside?  Maybe doubt crept in. Maybe someone told you it wasn't possible, but here's the truth: Your dreams are yours for a reason.  When we share our dreams to soon, we risk exposing them to the wrong voices- those who struggle to see their own potential, and in turn, cast shadows on yours. They'll ask,  "How will you make that happen?"  "Is that realistic?"  But the only validation your dream need is your belief. Hold your vision close, because there are the blockers- that's someone who can't see their own dreams so they try to find a way to block yours.  They will tell you, that's not a good idea, how will you fund that, so on and so forth. When you feel within yourself that you have been given a dream you want to pursue, don't share it too soon. Think about how you will make your dream come true, tap into your resources that will allow you to move forward, write your down your thoughts every time they come into you mind, you can use the notes app on your phone so you won't lose your thoughts as you are thinking throughout the day. When you have time sit down review your notes and start putting things together, write down your vision and make it clear. I know it's hard not to share your dreams with others, but you have to remember not everyone is going to want you to succeed. Don't allow the negativity from others allow your dreams to fade, they belong to you, and no one else.

Read more »

Seek and you shall find

Have you ever been in a situation where you are looking everywhere to try and find what you want to do?  Are you happy where you are in life, or do you daydream about doing something else? Life was never designed to stand still, everything about life is movement. Even the life cycle is movement, and at each stage you are there long enough to learn so you can move to the next stage. When we become adults the cycle doesn't stop, we just become intellectual and try to control the cycles. If you are feeling discontentment where you are right now, maybe it is a time for change. If you look back over your life, you can see that every time you moved forward was because you learned the lesson you needed to move forward. Don't be hard on yourself, allow yourself to walk by faith, not by sight if you need to. I can't tell you what you should do, but I can suggest taking time to get quiet, and put yourself first, life may feel like it's long, but it really is short. You have a purpose in every season of your life, just like the life cycle is a movement so is your purpose in this life. Continue seeking, and you will find.

Read more »

Making the decision to retire

I remember the day I made the decision it was time to retire. I had poured everything  into my work, but it was becoming clear that my dedication was  no longer enough for the powers that be. Honestly, I had been contemplating for a while that I would retire when I turned 62, and as that milestone approached, the signs around me seemed to confirm that change was inevitable- one challenge after another was pushing me toward a new chapter. There were lots of thoughts that flooded my mind:  Had I prepared for this day, would I be okay, what would I do once I took the leap?  Looking back, I believe when certain thoughts repeatedly cross our minds they signal the beginning of a new season. 

Read more »

Finding your way at the crossroads

We are always moving, either looking back or moving ahead. In this life we often find ourselves at crossroads, trying to make the right decisions as to where to go, or what to do. Many women in this season are living with the loss jobs for one reason or another, or for the more mature woman have been made uncomfortable in their positions, and possibly having to make the decision to retire. When having to make a decision at a crossroad, simply take time to be still, and quiet. Hear the voice within you, and don't second guess what you hear. If you follow what you sense within and don't share with everyone, I believe you will take the right road, and find your way into the next step in your future.

Read more »

I need a friend, a real friend

We are all in this same game of life, trying to win. It's hard, because while trying to win we lose connection with people. We have so many platforms to keep us disconnected from one another, and that is causing all kinds of issues. We all need someone to call on, that person that you just want to share something great that happened in a day with, or someone you can laugh with about the little things in life.  Let's be honest, with everything going on in our world, we need a little lightheartedness. We are a busy people these days with no time to slow down. But we have to find the time to connect, to slow down, and as they say, "smell the roses!" What can you do to find that friend, that person? First, you can't be afraid of rejection, as I said, "we are all looking for that friend." We have many opportunities to connect, but out of fear of rejection, we won't make it happen. Today, I thought about how many people I've met in the past month, and it was a lot. I'm kind of a people person, so it's not that hard for me to strike up a conversation. 

Read more »

This Is Your Season

Has there been a time in your life, when you can't stop thinking about something you've always wanted to do. If there is a constant pressing, something is being stirred up within you that you have to offer the world. Don't be afraid to walk by faith not by sight, when you have these pressing thoughts, it could very well be your season.  Write down your thoughts,  the difference between a doer and a dreamer is that the doer will write down the vision so they can have clarity. A dreamer keeps it inside, and thinks about it because they don't know where to start. It is written in Habakkuk 2:2 in the bible to write the vision, and make it plain, that he may run who reads it. That means you can move forward with clarity, and your vision can unfold. This is your season to fulfill your passion, start that business, write the book you want the world to read. All you have to do is start, and write it down.

Read more »

I need a friend, a real friend

We are all in this same game of life, trying to win. It's hard, because while trying to win we lose connection with people. We have so many platforms to keep us disconnected from one another, and that is causing all kinds of issues. We all need someone to call on, that person that you just want to share something great that happened in a day with, or someone you can laugh with about the little things in life.  Let's be honest, with everything going on in our world, we need a little lightheartedness. We are a busy people these days with no time to slow down. But we have to find the time to connect, to slow down, and as they say, "smell the roses!" What can you do to find that friend, that person? First, you can't be afraid of rejection, as I said, "we are all looking for that friend." We have many opportunities to connect, but out of fear of rejection, we won't make it happen. Today, I thought about how many people I've met in the past month, and it was a lot. I'm kind of a people person, so it's not that hard for me to strike up a conversation. 

Read more »

Battlefield of the Mind

The scene of the crime is your mind, thoughts are always showing up trying to steal your joy! Our minds can cause us to overthink everything. It's that inner reasoning and deliberation with oneself, and the world in which you live. Change your thinking, and you can change the outcome of your fight. If you don't have a handle on your thoughts, you become enslaved to the mind. We wage war from within, and if we don't change our thinking it defeats us. So, how can we change our thinking? First, get out of yourself, the flesh takes you down a dark downward spiral that makes it hard to get out of. Think about what is positive in your life, where do you go to find strength, peace and harmony? I'm not here to promote any type of religion, but I am a spiritual being who believes there is someone greater than me, or my thoughts, and I tap into that resource by reading the bible, being able to pray, and talk to God, believing He is someone who listens to me. I usually feel better after getting quiet, I find more clarity in what I am going through, and best part about it is that I didn't have to find someone to talk to about my thoughts. So be victorious in the battle, and win the war!

Read more »

Understanding Shifts In your Life

Have you ever had one of those days, when everything is going in your favor? You feel the blessings chasing after you all day long, and all of a sudden, the joy and positive attitude starts to fade for some reason. That can happen at the drop of a hat. When this happens I like to find a quiet place to sit down and think about any reason that could have shifted the atmosphere. As a matter of fact, this happened to me this week. I have had a great week filled with joy, love from family and friends, but without me realizing it, I remembered this is the week of my anniversary , and my late husband's birthday. It's been ten years since his passing. and usually I will post a birthday wish on my Facebook page, but this year I decided not to post the happy heavenly birthday on my page. For me it was like a day of silence, a day of reflection, and remembrance, I didn't want to share my day with the world. I didn't spend the whole day reflecting, but it was enough time to overcome the feelings I was experiencing. This milestone anniversary created the shift without me being aware of my feelings throughout the day, or  week.  Last night, I started to get sad again, and couldn't understand why, then this morning more sadness was overtaking me. I sat quietly, asking God what is the matter with me? In that quiet time, God impressed gently upon my heart that my sadness was coming from the longing of what I once had. There is a significant loss that has been experienced, and the memories that are held will never dissipate, they resurrect during times like this, birthdays, anniversaries, family gatherings and the list can go on and on.

Read more »

Are You Being Your Authentic Self?

Do you ever find yourself looking at someone, and start to judge yourself, or compare yourself? It's okay sometimes, that means you are trying to be your best, and it is keeping you aware of how you are presenting yourself to the world, but why do we do that? We have been given our own unique looks, gifts, and intelligence to be used for whatever purpose we were placed on the earth to do. When you can be authentic, you give the world so much more beauty, and it allows you to be part of a beautiful tapestry. You should never want to be someone else because you don't know what they are going through behind what you can see. All that glitters isn't gold, and all that you see is not real. Makeup and clothes can make just about anyone look good, so please just show up as your authentic self to the world, because contrary to what you might believe, you are authentically, and uniquely beautiful, So, go show the world who you are, not who you're trying to mimic!!

Read more »

Don't wait until tomorrow to do what you can do today

You should never put off until tomorrow, what you can do today. You might get a phone call, and be tempted to ignore it, but what if the person on the other end has been struggling, or battling an addiction. What if they just need someone- You- to listen? Try to pause and consider what they might be going through. Step into their shoes, even for a moment. That call might be their cry for help, their last ounce of courage to reach out.  Your voice familiar- and steady- might be exactly what they need to hold on a little longer. People often carry heavy things in silence. Fear of rejection, judgement or shame keeps them from speaking up until they feel they are at the end of their struggle. They might not tell you they're drowning, but that doesn't mean they aren't. We all face challenges;  toxic relationship, workplace struggles, financial strain. Some  people hide it better than others. But if you can offer a little compassion, if you can walk someone through their darkness, you might just find healing for yourself too.

Read more »

Protect Your Dream

Have you ever had a dream so vivid, so powerful,  that it felt like a part of you? Yet for one reason, or another you set it aside?  Maybe doubt crept in. Maybe someone told you it wasn't possible, but here's the truth: Your dreams are yours for a reason.  When we share our dreams to soon, we risk exposing them to the wrong voices- those who struggle to see their own potential, and in turn, cast shadows on yours. They'll ask,  "How will you make that happen?"  "Is that realistic?"  But the only validation your dream need is your belief. Hold your vision close, because there are the blockers- that's someone who can't see their own dreams so they try to find a way to block yours.  They will tell you, that's not a good idea, how will you fund that, so on and so forth. When you feel within yourself that you have been given a dream you want to pursue, don't share it too soon. Think about how you will make your dream come true, tap into your resources that will allow you to move forward, write your down your thoughts every time they come into you mind, you can use the notes app on your phone so you won't lose your thoughts as you are thinking throughout the day. When you have time sit down review your notes and start putting things together, write down your vision and make it clear. I know it's hard not to share your dreams with others, but you have to remember not everyone is going to want you to succeed. Don't allow the negativity from others allow your dreams to fade, they belong to you, and no one else.

Read more »

Seek and you shall find

Have you ever been in a situation where you are looking everywhere to try and find what you want to do?  Are you happy where you are in life, or do you daydream about doing something else? Life was never designed to stand still, everything about life is movement. Even the life cycle is movement, and at each stage you are there long enough to learn so you can move to the next stage. When we become adults the cycle doesn't stop, we just become intellectual and try to control the cycles. If you are feeling discontentment where you are right now, maybe it is a time for change. If you look back over your life, you can see that every time you moved forward was because you learned the lesson you needed to move forward. Don't be hard on yourself, allow yourself to walk by faith, not by sight if you need to. I can't tell you what you should do, but I can suggest taking time to get quiet, and put yourself first, life may feel like it's long, but it really is short. You have a purpose in every season of your life, just like the life cycle is a movement so is your purpose in this life. Continue seeking, and you will find.

Read more »

Making the decision to retire

I remember the day I made the decision it was time to retire. I had poured everything  into my work, but it was becoming clear that my dedication was  no longer enough for the powers that be. Honestly, I had been contemplating for a while that I would retire when I turned 62, and as that milestone approached, the signs around me seemed to confirm that change was inevitable- one challenge after another was pushing me toward a new chapter. There were lots of thoughts that flooded my mind:  Had I prepared for this day, would I be okay, what would I do once I took the leap?  Looking back, I believe when certain thoughts repeatedly cross our minds they signal the beginning of a new season. 

Read more »

Finding your way at the crossroads

We are always moving, either looking back or moving ahead. In this life we often find ourselves at crossroads, trying to make the right decisions as to where to go, or what to do. Many women in this season are living with the loss jobs for one reason or another, or for the more mature woman have been made uncomfortable in their positions, and possibly having to make the decision to retire. When having to make a decision at a crossroad, simply take time to be still, and quiet. Hear the voice within you, and don't second guess what you hear. If you follow what you sense within and don't share with everyone, I believe you will take the right road, and find your way into the next step in your future.

Read more »

This Is Your Season

Has there been a time in your life, when you can't stop thinking about something you've always wanted to do. If there is a constant pressing, something is being stirred up within you that you have to offer the world. Don't be afraid to walk by faith not by sight, when you have these pressing thoughts, it could very well be your season.  Write down your thoughts,  the difference between a doer and a dreamer is that the doer will write down the vision so they can have clarity. A dreamer keeps it inside, and thinks about it because they don't know where to start. It is written in Habakkuk 2:2 in the bible to write the vision, and make it plain, that he may run who reads it. That means you can move forward with clarity, and your vision can unfold. This is your season to fulfill your passion, start that business, write the book you want the world to read. All you have to do is start, and write it down.

Read more »

I need a friend, a real friend

We are all in this same game of life, trying to win. It's hard, because while trying to win we lose connection with people. We have so many platforms to keep us disconnected from one another, and that is causing all kinds of issues. We all need someone to call on, that person that you just want to share something great that happened in a day with, or someone you can laugh with about the little things in life.  Let's be honest, with everything going on in our world, we need a little lightheartedness. We are a busy people these days with no time to slow down. But we have to find the time to connect, to slow down, and as they say, "smell the roses!" What can you do to find that friend, that person? First, you can't be afraid of rejection, as I said, "we are all looking for that friend." We have many opportunities to connect, but out of fear of rejection, we won't make it happen. Today, I thought about how many people I've met in the past month, and it was a lot. I'm kind of a people person, so it's not that hard for me to strike up a conversation. 

Read more »

Battlefield of the Mind

The scene of the crime is your mind, thoughts are always showing up trying to steal your joy! Our minds can cause us to overthink everything. It's that inner reasoning and deliberation with oneself, and the world in which you live. Change your thinking, and you can change the outcome of your fight. If you don't have a handle on your thoughts, you become enslaved to the mind. We wage war from within, and if we don't change our thinking it defeats us. So, how can we change our thinking? First, get out of yourself, the flesh takes you down a dark downward spiral that makes it hard to get out of. Think about what is positive in your life, where do you go to find strength, peace and harmony? I'm not here to promote any type of religion, but I am a spiritual being who believes there is someone greater than me, or my thoughts, and I tap into that resource by reading the bible, being able to pray, and talk to God, believing He is someone who listens to me. I usually feel better after getting quiet, I find more clarity in what I am going through, and best part about it is that I didn't have to find someone to talk to about my thoughts. So be victorious in the battle, and win the war!

Read more »

Understanding Shifts In your Life

Have you ever had one of those days, when everything is going in your favor? You feel the blessings chasing after you all day long, and all of a sudden, the joy and positive attitude starts to fade for some reason. That can happen at the drop of a hat. When this happens I like to find a quiet place to sit down and think about any reason that could have shifted the atmosphere. As a matter of fact, this happened to me this week. I have had a great week filled with joy, love from family and friends, but without me realizing it, I remembered this is the week of my anniversary , and my late husband's birthday. It's been ten years since his passing. and usually I will post a birthday wish on my Facebook page, but this year I decided not to post the happy heavenly birthday on my page. For me it was like a day of silence, a day of reflection, and remembrance, I didn't want to share my day with the world. I didn't spend the whole day reflecting, but it was enough time to overcome the feelings I was experiencing. This milestone anniversary created the shift without me being aware of my feelings throughout the day, or  week.  Last night, I started to get sad again, and couldn't understand why, then this morning more sadness was overtaking me. I sat quietly, asking God what is the matter with me? In that quiet time, God impressed gently upon my heart that my sadness was coming from the longing of what I once had. There is a significant loss that has been experienced, and the memories that are held will never dissipate, they resurrect during times like this, birthdays, anniversaries, family gatherings and the list can go on and on.

Read more »

Are You Being Your Authentic Self?

Do you ever find yourself looking at someone, and start to judge yourself, or compare yourself? It's okay sometimes, that means you are trying to be your best, and it is keeping you aware of how you are presenting yourself to the world, but why do we do that? We have been given our own unique looks, gifts, and intelligence to be used for whatever purpose we were placed on the earth to do. When you can be authentic, you give the world so much more beauty, and it allows you to be part of a beautiful tapestry. You should never want to be someone else because you don't know what they are going through behind what you can see. All that glitters isn't gold, and all that you see is not real. Makeup and clothes can make just about anyone look good, so please just show up as your authentic self to the world, because contrary to what you might believe, you are authentically, and uniquely beautiful, So, go show the world who you are, not who you're trying to mimic!!

Read more »

Don't wait until tomorrow to do what you can do today

You should never put off until tomorrow, what you can do today. You might get a phone call, and be tempted to ignore it, but what if the person on the other end has been struggling, or battling an addiction. What if they just need someone- You- to listen? Try to pause and consider what they might be going through. Step into their shoes, even for a moment. That call might be their cry for help, their last ounce of courage to reach out.  Your voice familiar- and steady- might be exactly what they need to hold on a little longer. People often carry heavy things in silence. Fear of rejection, judgement or shame keeps them from speaking up until they feel they are at the end of their struggle. They might not tell you they're drowning, but that doesn't mean they aren't. We all face challenges;  toxic relationship, workplace struggles, financial strain. Some  people hide it better than others. But if you can offer a little compassion, if you can walk someone through their darkness, you might just find healing for yourself too.

Read more »

Protect Your Dream

Have you ever had a dream so vivid, so powerful,  that it felt like a part of you? Yet for one reason, or another you set it aside?  Maybe doubt crept in. Maybe someone told you it wasn't possible, but here's the truth: Your dreams are yours for a reason.  When we share our dreams to soon, we risk exposing them to the wrong voices- those who struggle to see their own potential, and in turn, cast shadows on yours. They'll ask,  "How will you make that happen?"  "Is that realistic?"  But the only validation your dream need is your belief. Hold your vision close, because there are the blockers- that's someone who can't see their own dreams so they try to find a way to block yours.  They will tell you, that's not a good idea, how will you fund that, so on and so forth. When you feel within yourself that you have been given a dream you want to pursue, don't share it too soon. Think about how you will make your dream come true, tap into your resources that will allow you to move forward, write your down your thoughts every time they come into you mind, you can use the notes app on your phone so you won't lose your thoughts as you are thinking throughout the day. When you have time sit down review your notes and start putting things together, write down your vision and make it clear. I know it's hard not to share your dreams with others, but you have to remember not everyone is going to want you to succeed. Don't allow the negativity from others allow your dreams to fade, they belong to you, and no one else.

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Seek and you shall find

Have you ever been in a situation where you are looking everywhere to try and find what you want to do?  Are you happy where you are in life, or do you daydream about doing something else? Life was never designed to stand still, everything about life is movement. Even the life cycle is movement, and at each stage you are there long enough to learn so you can move to the next stage. When we become adults the cycle doesn't stop, we just become intellectual and try to control the cycles. If you are feeling discontentment where you are right now, maybe it is a time for change. If you look back over your life, you can see that every time you moved forward was because you learned the lesson you needed to move forward. Don't be hard on yourself, allow yourself to walk by faith, not by sight if you need to. I can't tell you what you should do, but I can suggest taking time to get quiet, and put yourself first, life may feel like it's long, but it really is short. You have a purpose in every season of your life, just like the life cycle is a movement so is your purpose in this life. Continue seeking, and you will find.

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Making the decision to retire

I remember the day I made the decision it was time to retire. I had poured everything  into my work, but it was becoming clear that my dedication was  no longer enough for the powers that be. Honestly, I had been contemplating for a while that I would retire when I turned 62, and as that milestone approached, the signs around me seemed to confirm that change was inevitable- one challenge after another was pushing me toward a new chapter. There were lots of thoughts that flooded my mind:  Had I prepared for this day, would I be okay, what would I do once I took the leap?  Looking back, I believe when certain thoughts repeatedly cross our minds they signal the beginning of a new season. 

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Finding your way at the crossroads

We are always moving, either looking back or moving ahead. In this life we often find ourselves at crossroads, trying to make the right decisions as to where to go, or what to do. Many women in this season are living with the loss jobs for one reason or another, or for the more mature woman have been made uncomfortable in their positions, and possibly having to make the decision to retire. When having to make a decision at a crossroad, simply take time to be still, and quiet. Hear the voice within you, and don't second guess what you hear. If you follow what you sense within and don't share with everyone, I believe you will take the right road, and find your way into the next step in your future.

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When people enter your life, it could be a reason

Have your ever met someone and felt an instant connection- like you were meant to cross paths? Maybe it was a brief conversations, or a shared laugh, or a moment that lingered in your spirt long after it passed. These encounters aren't random. People come into our lives for a reason, and often they are arrive right on time. 

You might meet someone today who feels familiar, even if you've never seen them before. You exchange numbers, discover mutual friends,- and then, somehow, you run into them again. If feels like fate, but really, it's timing. Life unfolds in divine order, not by chance.

Take a moment to reflect:

  • Where are you in your journey right now?
  • Is there something you've been dreaming about- something you've quietly placed on the back burner?

Now think about the people who've entered into your life recently. Maybe in the past year, the month, or even just a few days ago. Did you feel a spark? An alignment? Did they show up just when you needed encouragement, clarity, or a reminder, of who you are?

Ask yourself:

  • What is here to teach me or awaken in me?
  • Do I feel more alive, more seen, more seen, more myself when I'm around them.
  • Are they helping me reconnect with a dream I've been afraid to pursue.

The universe often speaks through people. They reflect our hidden truth, our deepest desires, sometimes, our next steps. They remind us that we don't need to have it all figured out- we just need to move forward in faith. 

So maybe, just maybe someone has been sent into your life to help you connect the next dot. To remind you that your dreams are still alive. That your timing is still perfect. That you are still becoming.

  • Trust the encounter.
  • Trust the timing.
  • Trust the divine unfolding.

 

 

The Freedom Within: How to articulate What's Weighing on your heart

There are moments in life when a conversation must happen- not just for clarity, but for healing. The reason is simple yet profound: Freedom from within.

When we hold things in, out of fear,  we don't  protect ourselves, we harm ourselves. Unspoken thoughts can become emotional burdens, quietly ending our peace. But when something is pressing on your heart, the first step is to pause, and reflect. Ask  yourself: what is it that I truly need to say? Once you have identified what is on your mind, consider how to express it. There is a way to speak your truth without harm. Here are three guiding principals to help you navigate those difficult, but necessary conversations. 

1. Be Quick to Listen 

There is a quiet voice within you- call it wisdom, intuition, or discernment-  that will guide you. But you must be still enough to hear it. Don't rush into the conversation. Instead: listen deeply to yourself, to the moment, and eventually, to the other person.

2. Be Slow to Speak 

 Think carefully about your delivery, how will your words will land?  How might the other person receive what's weighing on  you. You can express your feelings without pointing the fingers, being accusatory, or using hurtful language. Thoughtful communication is powerful- it builds instead of tearing down. 

3.  Be Slow to Anger

Emotions are valid, but don't allow them to lead the conversation. Stay  in control, be level-headed, and seek to understand. Give the other person time to process what you are saying. Don't expect an immediate response. Remember you have had time to sit with your thoughts- they haven't.  

Anger stirs up strife-  if you approach someone who offended you, or hurt you in anger, you are unlikely not to find a resolution.

But if you approach with clarity, compassion, and calm,  you open the door to understanding and healing.

The ability to articulate what's bothering you is a gift- Speaking your truth with intention and care creates space for emotional freedom. And that freedom? Is the beginning of peace, growth, and deeper connection.

So, the next time something weighs heavy on your heart, remember: your voice matters. And when used wisely can set you free!

 

 

Battlefield of the Mind

The scene of the crime is your mind, thoughts are always showing up trying to steal your joy! Our minds can cause us to overthink everything. It's that inner reasoning and deliberation with oneself, and the world in which you live. Change your thinking, and you can change the outcome of your fight. If you don't have a handle on your thoughts, you become enslaved to the mind. We wage war from within, and if we don't change our thinking it defeats us. So, how can we change our thinking? First, get out of yourself, the flesh takes you down a dark downward spiral that makes it hard to get out of. Think about what is positive in your life, where do you go to find strength, peace and harmony? I'm not here to promote any type of religion, but I am a spiritual being who believes there is someone greater than me, or my thoughts, and I tap into that resource by reading the bible, being able to pray, and talk to God, believing He is someone who listens to me. I usually feel better after getting quiet, I find more clarity in what I am going through, and best part about it is that I didn't have to find someone to talk to about my thoughts. So be victorious in the battle, and win the war!

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Understanding Shifts In your Life

Have you ever had one of those days, when everything is going in your favor? You feel the blessings chasing after you all day long, and all of a sudden, the joy and positive attitude starts to fade for some reason. That can happen at the drop of a hat. When this happens I like to find a quiet place to sit down and think about any reason that could have shifted the atmosphere. As a matter of fact, this happened to me this week. I have had a great week filled with joy, love from family and friends, but without me realizing it, I remembered this is the week of my anniversary , and my late husband's birthday. It's been ten years since his passing. and usually I will post a birthday wish on my Facebook page, but this year I decided not to post the happy heavenly birthday on my page. For me it was like a day of silence, a day of reflection, and remembrance, I didn't want to share my day with the world. I didn't spend the whole day reflecting, but it was enough time to overcome the feelings I was experiencing. This milestone anniversary created the shift without me being aware of my feelings throughout the day, or  week.  Last night, I started to get sad again, and couldn't understand why, then this morning more sadness was overtaking me. I sat quietly, asking God what is the matter with me? In that quiet time, God impressed gently upon my heart that my sadness was coming from the longing of what I once had. There is a significant loss that has been experienced, and the memories that are held will never dissipate, they resurrect during times like this, birthdays, anniversaries, family gatherings and the list can go on and on.

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Are You Being Your Authentic Self?

Do you ever find yourself looking at someone, and start to judge yourself, or compare yourself? It's okay sometimes, that means you are trying to be your best, and it is keeping you aware of how you are presenting yourself to the world, but why do we do that? We have been given our own unique looks, gifts, and intelligence to be used for whatever purpose we were placed on the earth to do. When you can be authentic, you give the world so much more beauty, and it allows you to be part of a beautiful tapestry. You should never want to be someone else because you don't know what they are going through behind what you can see. All that glitters isn't gold, and all that you see is not real. Makeup and clothes can make just about anyone look good, so please just show up as your authentic self to the world, because contrary to what you might believe, you are authentically, and uniquely beautiful, So, go show the world who you are, not who you're trying to mimic!!

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Don't wait until tomorrow to do what you can do today

You should never put off until tomorrow, what you can do today. You might get a phone call, and be tempted to ignore it, but what if the person on the other end has been struggling, or battling an addiction. What if they just need someone- You- to listen? Try to pause and consider what they might be going through. Step into their shoes, even for a moment. That call might be their cry for help, their last ounce of courage to reach out.  Your voice familiar- and steady- might be exactly what they need to hold on a little longer. People often carry heavy things in silence. Fear of rejection, judgement or shame keeps them from speaking up until they feel they are at the end of their struggle. They might not tell you they're drowning, but that doesn't mean they aren't. We all face challenges;  toxic relationship, workplace struggles, financial strain. Some  people hide it better than others. But if you can offer a little compassion, if you can walk someone through their darkness, you might just find healing for yourself too.

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Protect Your Dream

Have you ever had a dream so vivid, so powerful,  that it felt like a part of you? Yet for one reason, or another you set it aside?  Maybe doubt crept in. Maybe someone told you it wasn't possible, but here's the truth: Your dreams are yours for a reason.  When we share our dreams to soon, we risk exposing them to the wrong voices- those who struggle to see their own potential, and in turn, cast shadows on yours. They'll ask,  "How will you make that happen?"  "Is that realistic?"  But the only validation your dream need is your belief. Hold your vision close, because there are the blockers- that's someone who can't see their own dreams so they try to find a way to block yours.  They will tell you, that's not a good idea, how will you fund that, so on and so forth. When you feel within yourself that you have been given a dream you want to pursue, don't share it too soon. Think about how you will make your dream come true, tap into your resources that will allow you to move forward, write your down your thoughts every time they come into you mind, you can use the notes app on your phone so you won't lose your thoughts as you are thinking throughout the day. When you have time sit down review your notes and start putting things together, write down your vision and make it clear. I know it's hard not to share your dreams with others, but you have to remember not everyone is going to want you to succeed. Don't allow the negativity from others allow your dreams to fade, they belong to you, and no one else.

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Seek and you shall find

Have you ever been in a situation where you are looking everywhere to try and find what you want to do?  Are you happy where you are in life, or do you daydream about doing something else? Life was never designed to stand still, everything about life is movement. Even the life cycle is movement, and at each stage you are there long enough to learn so you can move to the next stage. When we become adults the cycle doesn't stop, we just become intellectual and try to control the cycles. If you are feeling discontentment where you are right now, maybe it is a time for change. If you look back over your life, you can see that every time you moved forward was because you learned the lesson you needed to move forward. Don't be hard on yourself, allow yourself to walk by faith, not by sight if you need to. I can't tell you what you should do, but I can suggest taking time to get quiet, and put yourself first, life may feel like it's long, but it really is short. You have a purpose in every season of your life, just like the life cycle is a movement so is your purpose in this life. Continue seeking, and you will find.

Read more »

Making the decision to retire

I remember the day I made the decision it was time to retire. I had poured everything  into my work, but it was becoming clear that my dedication was  no longer enough for the powers that be. Honestly, I had been contemplating for a while that I would retire when I turned 62, and as that milestone approached, the signs around me seemed to confirm that change was inevitable- one challenge after another was pushing me toward a new chapter. There were lots of thoughts that flooded my mind:  Had I prepared for this day, would I be okay, what would I do once I took the leap?  Looking back, I believe when certain thoughts repeatedly cross our minds they signal the beginning of a new season. 

Read more »

Finding your way at the crossroads

We are always moving, either looking back or moving ahead. In this life we often find ourselves at crossroads, trying to make the right decisions as to where to go, or what to do. Many women in this season are living with the loss jobs for one reason or another, or for the more mature woman have been made uncomfortable in their positions, and possibly having to make the decision to retire. When having to make a decision at a crossroad, simply take time to be still, and quiet. Hear the voice within you, and don't second guess what you hear. If you follow what you sense within and don't share with everyone, I believe you will take the right road, and find your way into the next step in your future.

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Feeling stuck?

Ever feel like life has you trapped- like you are stuck, sinking with every effort to stay afloat? Some days it  just hits all at once, and much of it is completely beyond our control. We give everything we got, yet somehow, it never feels like enough. The pressure  piles on, and it's easy to lose sight  in ourselves in the chaos. 

But here's the truth; You are not powerless. You hold something sacred -self-awareness. It's the first step toward freedom. When you recognize the strength that already lives within you, things start to shift. You stop being led by  outside noise, and you start turning into the vision within.

It takes discipline to walk in that power, and trust in yourself to stay there. You learn to quiet the lies, to push pass the fear, and start to speak life over yourself- out loud. Your words have power. Your thoughts can be transformed. You have the key, don't hand it over. But the good news is: the strength you need isn't missing- its just been waiting for you to use it. You're not sinking, you're rising. Slowly. Deliberately. And stronger than ever.

Everything Unfolds Exactly as it Should

I know there are times when we all wish everything would turn out exactly as we wished, but in this game called life it doesn't. When things don't work out the way you want them to, you need to really get quiet and try to find the reason why. I'm not sure if you believe in God, or not, but I do, and I believe everything in life unfolds exactly as it should. We might never know why things we want doesn't happen, but you must look at more than the answer. I believe sometimes an unanswered request can be a protection to something you just can't see. We only know what is in the present and we can remember what was in the past, but we have no idea what the future holds. We don't know everything about someone, we only know from the time we meet them, and what they tell us, so we have to trust that life unfolds exactly as it should, and it is for our good and the best. So, the next time you are hoping for something, or someone, and it doesn't turn out the way you had hoped, look on the positive side instead of the negative, and choose to believe it was for the best.